I once had a friend who was myopic with very thick glasses😅😅😅(PS:I don’t know much about it). It was her obsession to always ask us the question ‘ what lens do you see through’, at random, at least once a week. She was quite irritating I mean,why that question knowing fully well that she was the only who actually wore them glasses.Turns out she was right.

My view of the world always meant I missed the point, not because my vision was less than 20/20, but due to the fact that the things that happened all throughout whilst growing had modified my response to everything. I had a rough time, my boat was sinking in still waters without any additional weight or portal of entry. The further down I went, the more erratic I became. One day we were having a conversation, discussing about life. It got so heated and I became extremely angry, it was something I expected everyone to agree with, my point of reasoning that is, when it concerns cooking and cleaning the house. I was angry with her most because she was very calm and assertive of what she believes in. To make matters worse, she looked at me and smiled and then asked ‘ What lens are you seeing the world through today ?

‘Shame wore me a cloak and with my head bowed down, I mourned for then I realized she was right.It’s been 5 years now and I realize how of a problem I was. The question she asked me all these time was just her way of politely saying ‘you believe you are right based on the scars you have had’.

My vision is a 20/20 but my views on life are quite vast and different. I have the lenses through which trust and bonds are never made or fully formed. Other days I wear the lenses of hurtful words, ensuring I bleed on everyone and they must feel the wrath and pain I go through. Did I mention the gloomy lenses, the ones I wear when the weight is unbearable ? My favourite of them all is that which makes me small. At least I don’t take up space and I am not noticed, no mockery ensues from the chanced encounters daily. My lenses are flawed and I kept on missing out and praying a change will locate me., yet nothing worked out.

I once had a friend who was myopic with very thick rim of glasses. Every week she always ask us what lens did we see the world through ? It pissed me off for each day I come to the realization that my vision is a 20/20 yet my view on the world is neither white, black or grey, it is flawed.

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